Atlanta Singles Dating Red Flags-What Saying I Love You Too Soon Really Means in the Dating World

Excerpt : Q: I've been dating this guy for two months and he is already saying I love you. This is nice, but it seems too soon. What do you think? A: In my opinion, saying I love you too soon usually

Q: I've been dating this guy for two months and he is already saying I love you. This is nice, but it seems too soon. What do you think?

A: In my opinion, saying I love you too soon usually indicates one of two things:

1. The words are being used to get something, usually sex. It really stinks when such precious words are used as a tool for manipulation.

2. The words do not reflect the depth of meaning you think they do. I tend to apply the four seasons approach to saying “I love you” – you need to know someone in at least four seasons (one year) before you can genuinely know someone well enough to say I love you.

It’s so easy to get caught up in the wonderful feelings of a new relationship and mistake those feelings for love. New relationships are fun and exciting. The rush of good feelings is very very strong. It

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does not equal love necessarily.

While that is not the most romantic answer, but I do believe it is the most realistic answer.

Bottom line – saying I love you is a function of time, and it takes time to be able to say it and mean it.

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