Dance of Dating

Excerpt : If you’re single and in sunny southern California, the climate for seeking a serious relationship (beyond casual dating & sex) is pretty dismal. Of course, you always have the option of carrying on

If you’re single and in sunny southern California, the climate for seeking a serious relationship (beyond casual dating & sex) is pretty dismal. Of course, you always have the option of carrying on meaningless conversation at any one of a hundred Happy Hours (disguised as Yoga Classes or a Sushi Gathering) with any one of a hundred casual potential dates. Meanwhile back at the ranch, your girlfriends are getting toasted in the corner. Placing you right back to, Square One. Option #2: You’re on the internet scrolling thru the myriad of dating service sites. Onto your last ditch effort. Option #3: The local rag personal ads. Quickly running out of options here. If luck is on your side and you’ve recently hit it big in the lottery or the casinos, maybe today is your lucky day! Or Not.

Face it, the world is making a lot of money on women’s and for that matter men’s lack of knowledge in the dating dance. Ah, yes…to actually ‘know’ how to select a mate that you find physically attractive, can carry on an intelligent conversation with, is considerate, honorable. I know, I know. Impossible. Right? Or is it? “ The Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking is essentially a lost science or language rather than a system”, states Zannah Hackett, an author and relationship expert. The following is an in depth look at one of the most common sense approaches to finding your soul mate. I had the privilege of interviewing Zannah at her lovely home in San Diego, California.

L.H. When I hear the word ‘MatchMaking’, the hairs on the back of my neck stand up. Explain how your system is different from the proverbial ‘matchmaking or dating agencies?

Z.H. “ It provides a means of understanding by subscribing to the notion that everyone arrives here in their said “vehicle” without an owner’s manual. This body of knowledge, referred to as the Knowledge of Y.O.U., affords one the opportunity to understand themselves. It hands them their owners’ manual as well as the one that belongs to their potential mate. They become their own expert, their own matchmaker. Instead of handing that delicate responsibility to some other company or individual, I suggest they acquire this vital understanding before visiting any dating sites or agencies. They will make far less mistakes by going in informed. Without this knowledge it’s like going outside in a rain storm without an umbrella. Your chances of getting wet, cold and ill will be minimized. We are all here to connect, to enhance and to rise to our full potential… but not alone”.

L.H. We’ve all heard there’s no such thing as the “perfect relationship” or “perfect mate”. Looking at it from a Vedic view point is this true or not?

Z.H. “Actually, there is something called a “Maximum Polarity Pull”. Once you are able to recognize what your perfect mate looks like on sight with more than just your own intuition or “love at first sight”, you can increase your odds of achieving a maximum attractive relationship. This is a huge benefit and definitely an advantage before entering the dating scene. The current popular profiling mechanisms available are wonderful but all too often services are pushed into the need to homogenize for tracking purposes and convenience sake. This knowledge will empower you and make you the expert. With the dating agency being at your service instead of the other way around.

L.H. So what do you recommend?

Z.H. I recommend that those seeking the perfect relationship be open to dismissing propaganda’s perception of “perfect” and come to understand what is absolutely perfect for them. I repeatedly recommend that everyone get informed before spending hours filling out profiling questionnaires, taking coffee dates, or handing over thousands of dollars to services that specialize in collecting pools of people. These are important but to go in unarmed is just foolish. This is your life we are talking about! And even more importantly, your decisions impact another human being… positively or negatively; depending on how much you know about your vehicle and theirs. This knowledge is not subjective. It’s not astrology. It has nothing to do with what day we were born, what our sign is, where we grew up, what color our aura is, or how much money we make. That would be like judging a car by the date it was manufactured and the city in which its factory originated. The ancient knowledge that I teach is best described as a physical science versus a traditional typing system. I continuously encourage every woman get this knowledge before ever engaging in a

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committed relationship. It will increase her chances of creating an environment in which both she and her mate can rise to their full potential effortlessly.

L.H. Let’s say I want to get informed in the Knowledge of Y.O.U.. Is this a system both men and women can use?

Z.H. Absolutely. However, up until late, I have been giving it only to women. I have my reasons of which I reveal to both men and women in private sessions & seminars. Each session allows you to come in contact with your own strengths and weaknesses. Oddly enough, sometimes this is very comforting. People come to know that it is okay to be the way they are. I teach them that they have a very distinct purpose and that they don’t have to subscribe to what someone else professes to be the a ‘right’ way to be or act. It’s a common sense approach to Reality Training for Relationships.

Do you recommend seminars or sessions?

I have found that private sessions work best for those that are trying to really get serious about finding a mate and want quick results. Seminars (LOVING Y.O.U. Workshops) often serve as a means of introducing many to the knowledge but to really integrate it into your personal life, you just can’t surpass a private session. Private Sessions are more expensive but all of your questions (and you will have many) are answered without interruption and your risk of being rushed is minimized as the sessions run 3 hours in length. I also assist clients in selecting agencies and online dating venues if it seems appropriate for them.

Are you the only one doing this or is there another source?

Yes I am. I am currently trying to clone myself by creating certification workshops for practitioners. It’s vital that the knowledge maintain integrity and I am a stickler about how the material is presented. However, for those clients that can’t make it to a seminar or session, I just recently published an ebook entitled The Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking. It will also be available in July in paperback and can be downloaded presently off of my website, http://www.pauseformagic.com .

How much does it cost?

The fee for a private session is $150 at my office as opposed to a group seminar that runs upwards of $375. The seminar fee varies depending on the host and the trimmings. I also travel to other cities for privates but the fee is adjusted accordingly. I like doing different venues and especially love it when a group of women come together for a FUN REVIEW. This is where many private clients come together and share how the knowledge is working. It also gives them an opportunity to use it with other women that have it as well. It’s a lot like being in a foreign country where English is not spoken and you get the opportunity to congregate with a dozen or more Americans for an evening of total understanding.

Have you ever used this knowledge in any other areas?

Yes, quite frequently companies will enlist my services in helping them to create harmonious work environments. I also get a lot of life coaches, personal trainers, dating specialists and psychotherapists that are seeking additional methods of meeting their clients needs, especially with family and marriage counseling. The knowledge is priceless when it comes to meeting these needs and truly expedites a positive outcome.

Is there anything that sets your presentation of matchmaking apart from other classes devoted to creating harmonious relationships?

Yes. There are some dynamics between the male and female union that are governed by ancient physical laws. These laws I share in this presentation of LOVING Y.O.U. The union between a man and woman carries with it a great responsibility, not only to the parties involved but also to the betterment of mankind. We as a species, have forgotten how to respond naturally as our attention has become over stimulated with too much designer information. Thus, we can’t even recognize ourselves much less the love of our life. The Knowledge of Y.O.U. refreshes your memory.

For information regarding the Nov. 12th seminar in Woodland Hills, scheduling a session or purchasing the book, The Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking, visit: http://www.yourownunderstanding.com 760.809.7273

LoRayne Haye is an accomplished columnist and believes in perpetuating health in all relationships. Visit her website: EATING-4-ENERGY.COM

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