Having a Positive Mental Attitude about Dating

Excerpt : This article isn't going to be about what you thought it might be. I'm not here to tell you that having a good attitude and 'keep getting out there' is going to cut it. I'm not a 'mainstream' dating

This article isn't going to be about what you thought it might be. I'm not here to tell you that having a good attitude and 'keep getting out there' is going to cut it. I'm not a 'mainstream' dating coach until more men are ready to accept their power and then maybe I'll be 'mainstream'.

I teach things of power and effectiveness; I'm not here to further propagate a mainstream social agenda that only makes you more frustrated about women and dating while coating over the truth.

It's not that this article is going to be overly pessimistic either; however if you're tired of being ignorantly naive when it comes to understanding women and dating, you're in the right place.

It's time for some real answers that look into why things are so difficult and how to change them for real results instead of doing what everyone else is doing.

To do so, we have to look deeper than the mainstream 'dating coaches'. We have to look at the truth or the closest thing to it of male and female behaviorism across natural, inner and social levels.

Once you can understand the root of a woman's behavioral characteristics and can define them, you'll have a lot more knowledge, clarity and power around women. You'll have cognition and instead of you being ignorant and women being a mystery you'll be in a position where you don't have to be used by other people's agendas.

You can seek out and lead the types of relationships that you desire.

I would rather have cognition of the truth than to be ignorant in bliss. I sought the truth and believe me that the ignorance was not very blissful.

There are guys out there who do have a happy naievete about everything. Many of them don't care to know why even they keep failing or why women act a certain way, they would rather keep 'being themselves' and happily naive to reality and the powers that are influencing them.

They can have a positive attitude about dating as long as they are unaffected by the great power game but for most socialized men, they HAVE been affected too much to just be ignorantly happy.

If a tree falls in the middle of a rainforest but no one hears it, does it make a sound? Of course it does. Seek the truth and you will

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come close to finding it.

The truth is not pretty. It's not as bad as in 'The Matrix' but it's a similar metaphor. Once you can free yourself from all co-dependencies and powers that are using you (after you can see them), then you will be able to have more personal power and effect than ever in life before.

From there you can understand the root influence of why women act the way they do and what it means to you so that you can maintain power, control and win/win relationships with them while clearing knowing who you are keeping your own power.

Then, you can live a robust, happy and social life of much more power than before because the roadblocks you have moved out of the way. You'll have cognition. You won't be naive. The truth will age you in maturity but it's worth it.

Having a 'great attitude' without cognition of the true relational reality isn't going to do it for most guys because there are too many roadblocks and unanswered questions. You're going to get out there and start getting depressed because you don't understand the power game that is going on.

You won't be able to figure out why women aren't calling you back, why you keep chasing them and getting nowhere. Study relational dynamics and you'll actually have a reason to be happy about dating and going out with women again because you'll be able to be what women want and knowing what objections to help THEM overcome to get there as well.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and relational dynamics. He is well-known within the seduction community itself.

His work focuses on the regaining and improving of real character within frustrated men who do don't want to 'act', use pick-up lines or techniques to get women.

He teaches modern men how to truly be natural and comfortable in their own skin to consistently succeed with women, attraction and dating. You can sign up for his free eZines and find out more information at http://www.relationaldynamics.org

He also has a free podcast at http://www.lifestyledatingradio.com

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